Believe it or not, being single is one of the best feelings in the world. Why so? That is because the best and most important relationship in the world is the one that you share with yourself. While being with a partner is romantically attractive, being single is both romantically and spiritually attractive. Most people find being single as non-desirable and boring, but the truth is told, it is not. There are various ways through which you can enjoy your singlehood and make it even more interesting and fun.
Here are 20 simple ways to cherish your ‘Single’ life:
20. Make the most of Everyday
Being single means being carefree. So, stop planning and pre-planning things, and let go. Live each day as it comes and enjoy all the small moments, the small happiness that comes along every day in your life.
19. Enjoy your Freedom
We humans throughout our life remain dependent on someone or the other. First, it’s the parents, and then it becomes your partner. But being single is the time when you can actually enjoy your freedom and have a taste of what life is all about. Take this opportunity and make the decisions you always wanted to make. Lead life the way you want, and not the way others’ want you to.
18. Put yourself to the Front
Start making it about yourself. Being selfish is bad, but so is being selfless. Start prioritizing yourself, your life and your choices. Take the chances that come your way and start doing new things. It does not matter what you do and what you don’t just do not be a reserve and spend the time contemplating to do or not to do.
17. Know who you are
Singlehood is the best period to learn more about yourself. It is the time when you can spend time with just yourself, and slowly start learning things about yourself which were hidden from you all these years. Take your time, figure out the things you want, the things you value, you support and work towards understanding yourself more.
16. Show a Positive Attitude
While being in a relationship most people give up their positive attitudes. They stop taking risks and that’s what makes life mundane. But being single is such a period, where you can actually change your life and enjoy it more by saying a simple ‘yes’, by taking a step forward and by opening yourself to new possibilities.
15. Find the Thing you Niche
In case you feel like you haven’t found what you are good at, or what you want to do. Take time to think and observe yourself, take time to find what you are good at and then give it a go.
14. Make a Career Change
When you are single the responsibilities are a lot lesser and you get to choose what you want to do and what you want to become. So, in case you are bored with your job, take a chance and change your career.
13. Make New Friends
Meeting new people, making new friends is a major part of singlehood. Man is a social animal, and he can’t live without meeting new people. So, open yourself and start meeting new people. Learn more about them and share a little about yourself and grow your circle.
12. Enjoy your Tinder life
Make yourself available. Being Single does not mean not ready to mingle. So, take your chances and matches and go on dates. Keep it simple, keep it casual.
11. Do not let Sex Drive You
While sex is important and being single does not make your sexual desires disappear. Do not let those desires guide you. So, while on a date, do not make it all about sex, take some time and think before jumping into anything. Do not let your desires control you, but instead control your desires and lead a happy life.
10. Treat Yourself
Take your time and your money, and once or twice in a week treat yourself to some good food, some shopping, etc. After all, that is the fun of being single, you earn every penny for yourself and you spend every penny for yourself. What you have is yours and what you spend is yours.
9. Take up New Hobbies
The best way to enjoy life is by trying out new things. Take up new hobbies, or look into things that you always wanted to try, and then take a step forward and try it out.
8. Work Hard, Party Harder
Take your job, college, school seriously. Work hard to achieve what you want and then gift yourself some relief by enjoying the life you’re working hard for.
7. Enjoy the Nightlife
Being Single means no one waiting at home for you to return within a certain deadline. Take time out, enjoy the nightlife, stay out and enjoy your hard-earned weekends and then come home and sleep till late in the morning.
6. Spend Time with Friends
Most people who get into relationships tend to forget their friends. But singlehood is the phase when you can actually enjoy with your friends. Make plans with them, go shopping, go out for dinners, travel places, sleepover at each other’s places and make your bonds even stronger.
5. Netflix and Chill
In this modern world when most of us are Netflix lovers it is a lot more fun being single. Make your weekends fruitful by taking up Netflix and binge-watching anything and everything you want.
4. Read More
Another amazing way to enjoy being single is by drowning yourself in the world of fiction. One of the perks of being single is you get to choose how you want to spend your free time, and reading is one of the best things to do. It will not only entertain you but will also make you wise.
3. Travel Solo
Take time off and travel. Travel to all those places you have wanted to visit ever since you were a kid. Traveling alone is a whole different kind of experience and you won’t ever realize its value unless and until you make a plan and just do it. So, pack your bags, put on your hat and go enjoy the world.
2. Start Loving Your Company
Always remember this, nobody loves you as much as you do, and nobody understands you as much as you do. So stop dreading your single status and start loving your own company.
1. Appreciate your Singlehood
Finally, the most important thing is enjoying your single life. Being single is not just a status, it is a state of mind, which makes you believe in yourself and which makes you a strong person. Accept yourself and your singlehood and stop searching for love. Let the love come to you naturally, because, at the end of the day, self-love is the best love.